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He lost his marriage... but found peace.

Jul 21, 2026

Normally on this show, I'm the one helping men heal from narcissistic abuse and toxic relationships.

But today, I sat down with Drew Brown for one of the most honest conversations I've had in a long time.

We didn't just talk about divorce.

We talked about what happens when you've spent years trying to be a good husband, a good father, and a good provider... while quietly losing yourself in the process.

Drew shares what it was like to rebuild his life after nearly 20 years of marriage, how his nervous system completely broke down, what co-parenting has taught him, and why finding peace sometimes means telling yourself the truth for the first time.

If you've ever felt trapped, exhausted, or like you're carrying more than anyone realizes...

...I think this conversation will speak to you.

Watch here: https://youtu.be/m3ueBH3AGt0

 

I hope it encourages you.

– Phillip

P.S. If there's a man in your life who's struggling in silence—a friend, brother, son, or dad—please send him this episode. He may need it more than you know.

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