No. This is coaching — plans, skills, execution, accountability. Plenty of the men in here also see a therapist and it's a good combination. If what you need is clinical care, I'll tell you straight and help you find it.

No, and don't take legal advice from any coach. What I'll do is prepare you to walk into a family law attorney's office with your documents organized and your questions written down, so you spend your retainer on strategy instead of on explaining your marriage.

You've already spent more than that on the last year of this. In sleep, in doctor's visits, in the career you stopped pushing, in the version of yourself your kids have been getting. The average contested divorce runs many multiples of this number, and men who go in with a plan spend less than men who go in reacting. This isn't the expensive option. Standing still is.