I'm opening something new — reply if you want in

Apr 07, 2026

I'll keep this short.

For a long time, men have been reaching out, asking for something in between.

Not a book. Not a $997 coaching program. Something where they can show up, get real answers, and be around other men who actually get what they're going through.

I'm building that.

It's called The Narc Free Brotherhood, a monthly group coaching community for men who are navigating a narcissistic relationship, planning an exit, or rebuilding after one.

Here's what it includes:
→ 2 live group coaching calls per month (recorded)
→ A private community of men in the same fight
→ Monthly tactical playbook, real scenarios, real strategies
→ Monthly hot seat, one member's situation dissected live

No therapy-speak. No shared blame. Just clarity, tactics, and brotherhood.

I'm opening a small founding group first, before I make this public.

If you want the details, just reply to this email with one word: IN

I'll send you everything — price, start date, and how to join.

Stay steady,
Phillip

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